I finally have my life back! (28+ fails)

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    Ariana Parrish

    **I forgot to add my last two tips:

    • Take time off. If you keep failing and hitting a wall, give yourself 2-6 months to just live your life. There are so many life events we miss studying. Give yourself some grace. I lived abroad for a little under a year, purchased 2 houses in between and I'm happy I didn’t completely stop living. But when you're not living go in full hibernation mode. I even took 6 months away from work and studying 14 hours a day (I failed those exams, and vowed to never study for that much time ever again but it felt good having that time dedicated to studying only)
    • Don't let the small things get to you, if someone you know passed on the first try with all of these. Good for them, but your journey makes you stronger.
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    Rebekka O'Melia (Edited )

    Congratulations Ariana!

    Failing and learning from it is definitely part of the process, albeit painful.  And I think your comments about being caught in a transition and losing passing exams is something that exam candidates need to think about right now, as we are in the tail end of ARE 5.0 in my opinion.

    Faith in God is huge as well.  Architecture is great, but it's not our entire existence.  

    I think it's frustrating that the materials and ARE products are $$$ and in your case you still had to take over 40 exams.  Experience in architecture and LIFE is always valid.  I even think that buying property and making repairs is a good learning experience for the ARE.  And I'd never encourage anyone to quit!  Quitters never win; and winners never quit!

    Enjoy your license!

    Rebekka O'Melia, R.A., NCARB, B. Arch, M. Ed, NOMA, Step Up ARE Courses

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    Jason Ma

    Congratulations, I just started my journey this year..

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